rabz

Well the marriage topic again

Date: 12 Sep 2008, 1:05 am / Mood: blank

Salaam All



One sister written this on one of my blogs...





Just clearing the air- Marriage is big topic.... yes



but No one really gets to the other side of it... only thing we always hear is get married get married





youtube it.. islam - marriage...



half you deen



blah blah blah





WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER HALF?





No no no- get married and together  (1+1= 2) you can help each others, OTHER half...



How come no one ever talks about the joy of being single and muslim?

How come no one ever talks about accomplishing goals with out marriage...





Opiate- being married will equal to a religious high of some sort...



How come the Scholar Imans and Shaykh never talk about feeding the poor and help the Earth.... saving an animal from extiction?



Nope... never a hot topic





Marriage is....



Are we not khalifa on this Earth.. Didn't Allah give us a duty to take care of his planet?





How many muslims aid in trying to save the Elephants in Malaysia?



little to none



What about the Wolves?



NOPE...



What about helping the poor...



Nope... some of think well if they aren't muslims I shouldn't help them..



WRONG!!!



But agian these are not hot topics...



Marriage is... you see how you all opened up this blog



OHHHHHHHHHHHH another hot topic.. the Stupid war between to sect of muslims



Sufi - Salafiyah



OR



Shia and SUnnis



Hot topics - each of the picking at one another....



yes I called it stupid...



Muslims aren't suppose to fight one another... but yet we do... what kind of an example are we setting?





Not a very good one....





I hope this blog didn't upset or bother any of you... but make you think more about Allah's World... where we live and ask yourself in the month of Ramadan- What have I done to give back to this world? Did I help a homeless man? Did I give to the needy?

Did I plant a tree, a flower in the ground?



Instead of worrying about "when am I going to get married?"



Aid in preserving that which we are made of - Dirt.. clay soil....



Help one of Allah creations from become another mark in the history books...





Fi amin Allah

rabz (12 Sep 2008, 2:04 pm):

Wa Alaikum Salaam 

 

First of all Big Poppa ( I bet you're an African American Salafiyah... right? I can tell just by your militant response... and Right? Remember you can lead a horse to water but you can't force it to drink... The Prophet (SAW)Vwas gentle in his speech...)  - You arrogance shows in your comment... and you need to work on that... If you read my blog more clearly it or comprehend instead of gobbling it down to bring up what you wrote... I mention what is and isn't a hot topic...

Marriage in Islam is a hot topic and my question how come caring for the planet and the animals are not... SECOND Allah stated in Surah Baqrah MAN was created to care for the Earth... It's Ramadan- Read the firs Juz... Obviously YOU don't know about having good Adhab...

and  No one chooses to be single in Islam it's just nature... or Allah's will... When we are born... we're not married and when learn about islam at a young age - their not married... My reason for this blog... is to OPEN the eyes of singleton, married ones and see there's a whole section that's being dismissed and that's our duty as a Khalifa or caretaker on this earth...

 Sorry if this may come off offensive... But I don't take kindly to rude or crude remarks... Adhab is key in being a Muslim... the Prophet was never Rude, Mean or disrespectful... So as muslims trying to follow his way... We should do the same... and you to come out and tell me what I know and don't know about Islam... Just show you're judgemental side... which leave me to wonder- who gave you this Supior thought that you know all about Islam or you can point out who does or doesn't?  one word comes to mind "EGO"

Kill your Ego before it kills you... Your comment to my blog is a raping one... a FORCED comment... and it's rude.

Take it as you like... but think about it... how would you like it if someone called you out. This is the month of Ramadan... Aren't we suppose to be kind to our brot


BIGPOPPA (12 Sep 2008, 5:58 am):
as salaamu alaikum may allaah grant us hidayyah its obious that u donthave any knowledge about islaam.marraige is a part of the completion of iman and also its the cause of increasing the ummah.also u speak about animals and saving them when there muslim that need help.and all this trouble is due to ppl not adhering to the correct aqeedah and manhajj of islaamand as long as we are not abusing animals than our concern is est tawheed upon the earth.and for those whom dont have the desire to get married or the means fast but for us that we have this desire and we understand that u should know the ahkam of marriage so when allaah blesses u than u wil be upon guidance.

siecantik (12 Sep 2008, 5:35 am):
salaam alaikum,

sist lots muslims like "WE DO GREEN" 

but u know slogan or tag line about  ' bad news is always become good news '


ummleyla (12 Sep 2008, 1:58 am):
I agree with you!Muslims shouldn't fight each other! They should stick together,shia and sunni,against the kuffar.