noor_islam
feeling rejected??
rejection and questioning our competence
Many of us have experienced those feelings,the feelings of being put down by others,at that time we may start to think that we don’t deserve to succeed; we may start to think that we are incompetent or we even may start to think that we took the wrong direction from the beginning, but do you know why do we sometimes feel so?
Because we have a false idea about rejection, this idea in simple is thinking that this world runs perfectly, and that being rejected means that we are bad and being accepted means that we are good.
the truth about rejection
If you think that good things must be accepted because they are good and that bad things must be accepted because they are bad then you wrong, at many situations the opposite happens, just take the example of prophets when they carry god’s message to others, does every one believe in them? Don’t they get rejected? But why were they rejected while they are holding the truth? Simply because the truth doesn’t only need to be the truth in order to be accepted, the truth needs someone to fight for it, until it shines everywhere.
This is the truth about rejection, you may get rejected while you are good, you may be rejected while you are better than the person who rejected you, simply because this life is not a perfect one, however, if you did believe in yourself enough to fight till the end, your light will shine everywhere, your idea will be accepted and you will be the winner.
lolz he must be very lucky he got a mommy like you :) mashallah
and w iyak akhi truelover
thanks sisters :)
well before goin any further i want to make it clear its not me who wrote this...i search online and post them here..since i see alot of muslims who have strong faith mashallah want to improve their personality to become better muslims and better people around others
as for happiness question
you must know that dealing with rejection starts by building faith in your abilities and skills before presenting them for someone else to review. If you are not sure of them, you will feel very bad if you are rejected. Sit with yourself first, study your abilities, skills, and plans from all angles and aspects then ask close friends or people that you trust for their opinion. By then you should have a solid evaluation of your abilities. You can then go present yourself everywhere, and if you are rejected, simply remember your previous evaluation instead of trying to reevaluate yourself all over again. If you are rejected don’t just go and search for clues to why this happened. Don’t question your abilities, personality or dreams, just have faith in them
well said sister..we have to be thankful for everything...afterall everything happens for a reason...allah want draw us closer to him in hardships..and inshallah many great things will come after them...
lastly, i pray that allah swt give you shifah and get u past ur worries ...ameen