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The Work of Shaytaan: SLANDER

Date: 16 Sep 2008, 6:00 pm / Mood: disappointed


بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 



Some users at muslimspace are quite quick at the use of the tongue and yet void of the use of their iman and their brains.



Slandering means uttering false charges or misrepresentations which defame and damage somebody's reputation. A synonym for this is backbiting; which means to say unkind or spiteful things. Cursing means praying or invocation for harm or injury to come upon one.



Slandering and cursing is forbidden in Islam because it is not nice to talk about others using bad words. For proof, we have the Quran and the Hadith.



Slandering and Cursing is Shaytaan's work. He tries to create mischief among human beings.



What to talk about cursing and slandering, Islam does not even allow to talk loudly or harshly lest the addresses feels insulted.



Don't speak ill of each other behind their backs.



Allaah Ta'ala does not like spreading of evil news about each other. If you talk about someone when he is or isn't present, it is the same as eating a dead brother's flesh!



In surah 49 verse 12 Allaah Ta'ala says,



"O you who believe, Avoid most of suspicion, for surely suspicion in some cases is a sin, and do not spy nor let some of you backbite others. Does one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? But you hate it, and be careful of your duty to Allaah Ta'ala, surely Allaah is Oft-Returning and Merciful."



Slandering applies even if what you are saying about the individual is true in other words you don't have to lie or say something untrue about the person to be regarded as slandering even if what you are saving about the individual is true it still falls within slandering.



Prophet Muhammed (May Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Ta'ala Be Upon Him Said), "A believer is neither a taunter, nor a curser, nor an indecent, nor an abuser."



Prophet Muhammad has sternly forbidden slandering and cursing. Childhood is the right age to understand these social evils. We should learn to avoid them in our daily dealings.



Prophet Muhammad also said. "A slanderer shall never enter paradise."



Allaah Ta'ala also hates backbiting. Prophet Muhammad said, "Backbiting is to mention something about someone which that person hates when someone says it.



Prophet Muhammad once said, "It is not proper for a great truthful person to become a great curser."



Good character melts away mistakes,



just as water melts away ice.



Bad character spoils deeds,



Just as vinegar spoils honey.



Allaah Ta'ala does not look upon your bodies or appearances, He looks upon your intentions and your deeds.



Slandering and cursing creates bad blood between two members of the same society. Why can't they iron out their differences by talking to each other? Islam wants a clean and healthy society in which everybody loves each other and lives harmoniously.



I'd like to end this blog with an interesting find, the clear definition of "profane/profanity" reprinted from http://dictionary.reference.com



  pro·fane      ).












3.

unholy; heathen; pagan: profane rites.









4.

not initiated into religious rites or mysteries, as persons.









5.

common or vulgar.
–verb (used with object)








6.

to misuse (anything that should be held in reverence or respect); defile; debase; employ basely or unworthily.









7.

to treat (anything sacred) with irreverence or contempt; violate the sanctity of: to profane a shrine.



 



May this find all of you safely. A'udhu billaahi minash-Shaytaanir-rajeem. Allaahu laa ilaaha illaa Huwal Hayyul-Qayyoom, laa takhudhuhu sinatun wa laa nawm, lahu maa fis-samaawaati wa maa fil'ardh, man dhal-ladhee yashfa'u 'indahu illaa bi idhnih, ya'lamu maa bayna aydeehim wa maa khalfahum, wa laa yuheetoona bishay im-min 'ilmihi illaa bimaa shaa-a, wasi'a kursiyyuhus samaawaati walardh, wa laa ya'ooduhu hifdhuhumaa, wa Huwal-'Aliyyul 'Azeem.



الحمدلله


mzislam123 (17 Sep 2008, 1:28 am):
ur back?
hmustafa (17 Sep 2008, 12:53 am):
Thank you for this lesson .
Hijabi_Aisha (16 Sep 2008, 9:15 pm):
Part 1: Islam is a religion of peace, love and compassion. Lies, unjustified suspicion, backbiting, slander and gossips are totally alien to Islam. In fact they are considered amongst the most destructive of major sins. This is so because these sins sow enmity and discord among the Muslim community (Ummah) and lead to its destruction. They cause hostilities between people of the same household, and between neighbors, friends and relatives. Islam states that our relationship with mankind should be one of sincerity and responsibility. It should be one where we have respect for the honor, reputation and privacy of others. This beautiful religion teaches us that we are not only held accountable for our own attitudes and actions, but also for anything else over which we have control or influence over, in our society or the world around us. Those who worship Allah should care for each other in every way; the Muslim community should sustain best moral values of the faith: Mercy, compassion, fear of Allah, piety, and justice. Allah ordered Muslims to defend, help and stand by each other, "strong against unbelievers but compassionate amongst each other"[Quran 48:29].
Hijabi_Aisha (16 Sep 2008, 9:14 pm):
Part 2: A Muslim is required to defend his brother when someone talks about him behind his back. In Islam, Muslims should not do injustice to others nor do they tolerate any injustice to themselves.In their love and concern for each other, all Muslims are like one body, as Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:“when any part of the body suffers, the whole body feels the pain”.(Sahih Muslim)
Allah has promised for the one who defends his absent brother with a great reward and promised to protect him from the fire.
Abu Ad-Darda narrated that Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:
"The one who rebuts another from backbiting has protected himself from the fire."
This is just something to think about with the Muslim community being the way that it is. I have personally found some Muslims backbiting me, cos I am a private Muslimah. I remain at home cos I feel more comfortable praying at home. But just cos I am not in contact with many Muslims in NZ EVERYDAY does not mean I am doing haram things. I still pray, fast, wear hijab and be the best Muslimah that I can be to my best ability. I am just tried of the BS stirring. You think cos I am a revert that I am weak...you can think what ya like. But Allah sees me...sees my heart...sees my actions. Only Allah can judge me!

Your sis in Islam,
Aisha.
Habiba (11 Mar 2008, 3:03 pm):
im glad someone is talking about this..because slandering is one of the most hurtful things a person can do. and WHOA about profanity...relations to paganism! omg...thats crazy.