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KALIZYA

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  • 31 years old
  • United-States
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I am in New York
Art, conversation, children, shopping and dressing. I express myself in the way I look. I love to talk to new friends and build relationships. Most of all I love to learn. My fantasy is to learn how to do hair and own my own business.
Rude, loud, over confident people. People that put others down and name call, people that use too much foul language, liars, people that judge others rather than themselves.

I had to say this, this may sound strange but I am disturbed by how many Muslim woman portray violence and weapons on their sites, its a bit disturbing. Even though we are witnessing terrible events and the oppression of our brothers and sisters I think the images should be saved for those that you know well and know won't be negatively affected by seeing pictures of murders when the click on random pages. I always shy away from sisters with photos of machine guns for some reason, its a little bit too radical for me. I pray that the innocent are spared from violence on both sides of this war. All I know how to do is to try to be a positive role model, be kind and speak with people about what I think is true Islam for Muslims and Non-Muslims and attract people to our religion for those reasons, not by fear or intimidation. Finally, I strongly believe that offering Dawa to non Muslims can best be done by taking a soft approach and by being a positive non judgmental role model to those that have never learned about Islam. Make people feel comfortable by being receptive to who they are and answering questions in a way that is appropriate for the person you are acquainted with.
I love love love international music from the Middle East. I love R&B. I listen to slow music when I'm sad, fast music when I'm hyper, or bored. I am still torn to whether listening to music is acceptable in Islam and whether I am not following our laws as appropriated to us.
Sci-fi, action, horror, love stories, "girly movies", and "boy movies"




This brother is a new game designer apparently he is an Iranian re-vert to Islam, support him but buying his new board game called, "From Mecca to Medina" here is an interview regarding how he came up with the idea.




Mecca to Medina Interview that inspired Ummah Films

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I read online I should read more but since grad school I am all burned out of reading.


I haven't used it but I hear its good. $40.00 after the trial.
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My main goal is to meet new and inspiring sisters who I can build a bond with and learn from.

I love to discuss politics and religion but I am very middle road if not liberal on certain topics. It bothers me when people choose one side and not try to understand the motivations of the other. I am not a black and white person, my mind naturally tries to find the peaceful answer. I am not confrontational and have a hard time saying what I really think if it is negative. I would like to learn how to become much more aggressive in asking for what I need from people, but not in a rude way.

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Occupation:
 Other
Ethnicity:
 African American
Mother Tongue:
 English
Religion:
 Muslim
Practicing:
  Yes - Alhamdullilah
Marital status:
 Prefer-not-to-say
Member since:
 27 Jun 2006, 4:16 am
Last login:
 09 Apr 2008, 3:54 am
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nagytha (17 Dec 2007, 12:40 am):
Asalamu Alaikum Sister. How are you, just wanted to introduce myself as a sister in islam. I love your flower arraigement photos, masha Allah very beautiful.
ihssane (16 Oct 2007, 10:14 pm):

salam alaikum

i have the same problem as u, i live apart from my husband, i'm in morocco he's in uk! ( immigration problems) we've been married just for 5 months, but it's so hard! we love each others so much, he visit me evry month! but saying good bye is more difficult evrytime! allah test us in so many ways! and marrige is half of our deen!

allah swt says in the quran:

"BE SURE WE SHALL TEST TOU WITH SOMETIME OF FEAR AND HUNGER N SOME LOSS IN GOODS OR LIVES OR THE FRUITS OF YOURVENGL? BUT GIVEGLAD TIDINGS TO THOSE YOU PATIETLYPERSERVE. WHO SAY? WHENAFFLICTED WITH CLAMITY/TO ALLAH WE BELONG? AND TO HIM IS OUR RETURN"

soura baqara 155.157

x_aishah_x (26 Apr 2007, 11:33 pm):



truth_seek (24 Jan 2007, 5:12 am):
salam aleykium sis....

dropped in after awhile to say hi. I'm thinking March or so I may be out your way... insha allah.... it's either nyc or MI....you know which i perfer,,,insha allah we will see. Can't wait to see you (any idea when you might come out this way?....Kim's baby? love ya lots K
talk to you soon
salam
momof7 (15 Jan 2007, 5:09 am):
assalam aliakium sister i too am married to an arab and i am american at times i find it difficult between the cultures and traditions on religion we are both the same alhumdillah but other things seem what stresses our marraige weve been married 16 years inshallah allah will make it easier for all of us
MusliM_Duo (22 Dec 2006, 12:35 am):
As salaamu alaykum, We too as African American muslims sometimes get ignored when we give salaams to other muslims. Here are a few ayaats.

When those come to thee who believe in Our signs, Say: "Peace be on you: Your Lord hath inscribed for Himself (the rule of) mercy: verily, if any of you did evil in ignorance, and thereafter repented, and amend (his conduct), lo! He is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

Qur'an 6:84



When a (courteous) greeting is offered you, meet it with a greeting still more courteous, or (at least) of equal courtesy. God takes careful account of all things.

Qur'an 4:86



Whoever does not greet muslims or return the greeting with an equal or better greeting, they are disobeying Allah. Warn them. Show them from Qur'an, if they still don't return your salaams, then atleast you keep obeying Allah by continue-ing to give them salaams. Allah is keeping track of all these things. The day of Judgment is coming, we will all be questioned.

As salaamu alaykum, Abdul-Haq

truth_seek (10 Nov 2006, 3:36 am):
salam K....
time to update your video

love ya....
T
truth_seek (29 Oct 2006, 7:54 pm):
salam aleykium K

are you feeling any better yet? how's the new job going? Give me a call when you are free.

Love ya
T.
Candy_Gunner06 (04 Oct 2006, 7:23 pm):

Assalam Alaykum, dear sister, kul asen wa enti tayaba, ramadan karim, hope you have a good ramadan, for this is a month of spiritual advancment make it count, you are in prayers, salam
MexicanMuslim (26 Sep 2006, 2:41 pm):
As-Salamu Alaykum,
Jazakalakhair for stopping by my page and adding me to your friends list. Ramadan Mubarak! Insha Allah I hope that you and yours are in the best of health and may Allah (swt) make Muslims victorious over injustice!! Ameen!
Jesus
Candy_Gunner06 (16 Sep 2006, 3:54 pm):
Assalam Alaykum,

Thanks for replying, and for visiting my page, I hope my story will help others Insha Allah who are struggling in the same matter as I am. I read your page its very nice, I love your pictures very nice.
on General info,what you wrote is sounds very familiar, I had the same problem with my husband, he was in Egypt and I was in Canada. The Immigration refused my husband, so we stayed apart for 5 years.
Once every 15 months I would visit him in Egypt, for 1 month, so I understand your situation, it is hard, the hardest part was that my husband's family forced him to marry his cousin, so he got married, and of course, your question would be, " why,didn't I just move to egypt?", well it got more complicated, I had legal problems in canada which lasted 5 years that stopped me from moving to egypt and on top of that I was diagnosed with cancer, so I had to stay in canada for treatment, his family thought I was going to die, so they forced him to get married, he had our daughter with him, and my mother-in-law didn't want to take care of our daughter, so yeah life is complicated at time,but with Allah in our hearts, mind and soul we can overcome our obsticles in life, after 5 years of praying, my health is good for now, Alhumdulillah, the charges on me is finally settled but not to my likings, my husband divorced his wife after 4 months of marriage he never loved her, and I finally moved to egypt to be with my husband and our 2 daughters. Alhumdulillah, found a job, but my husband is thinking of moving to Qatar for a job, I tolled him, "I just got here, and you wanna leave me?" anyway, he just wanna have a better future for us and our daughters, Insha Allah, so hang in there, in time, everything will workout Insha Allah, like the Qur'an say's, " patience and perserverace", well, I wrote too much take care from your sister in Islam Salma
tuhfa (03 Sep 2006, 11:46 am):
wa alaikum assalam

Welcome back.

I didn't get your msg, why people scratch their head?

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.... I did miss the mango lassi at the end but it actually worked out well because I guess people might have been scratching their heads...
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