salaam sis was this in a non muslim chat room ?

I wud pray to Allah for him ... and never return to such chat rooms cuz this is the comments ur bound to receive

or just avoid chatrooms in general it may lead to fitna

I guess everybody reacts in there own way,but "personally" If u see something as inappropriate,voice it,bring it to attention,tell them "straight up" that theyre rude,obscene,disrespectful,in a firm manner without getting too crazy or derogatory,ignore it if u can but if u cant....and none of this works..KICK EM WHERE IT HURTS.........Peace

So, farougnimer, any advice to us girls on how to know if a man is a good muslim man, or a player?  I mean, what advice would you give your daughter someday?  Usually it is hard for me at least to tell when i meet someone what they are really up to!

thanks

and befriending men is sinful.  it has numerous negative consequences.

many men are players, so beware. 

I think they should report it, at least to friends and family!  The only way some men will treat a woman with respect is if she demands it!!  We should demand it, we deserve it!  I've had men say things to me, for no reason other then I said no to their proposals, and flip out.  I usually tell my brothers if they are nearby, and my girlfriends, so they too know to stay away from that person!

Nice blog,

Thanks. :)