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The Rights of the Husband

Date: 14 Jul 2008, 7:32 pm / Mood: happy


1 - To obey him. The wife, in particular, should obey her husband when he ordered something within their means, and this is something natural law implicit in a shared life. There is no doubt that the obedience of the wife's family preserves and sorrows of their destruction, increases the love of her husband and deepens the union between them and love among all family members. Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah said: "If a woman meets the five daily prayers, fasting during Ramadan, takes care not to commit adultery or fornication and obeys her husband tell: Enters the Paradise by the door who want to "Transmitted by Ibn Hibbán and Imam Ahmad. Women must always bear in mind that disobey it irritates her husband and hurts their dignity. The pious Muslim woman do if her husband mad looking accommodate them immediately and apologize.



2 - To watch their honour and their property, Allah said: "Women are the pious caring honor and property in the absence of her husband." Abu Daud and Al Nasari conveyed that the Messenger of Allah said: "Do you want to report the best of women? It is the pious woman, when a view you happy when you sort something you and obeys absent when you honor your cares and your property. "



3 - Have regard for their dignity and feelings, not see anything wrong with it at home, not hear it but nice things and not complete but good feelings toward her. If your husband really can not find a wife in his house clean, orderly, polite, with a sincere smile, saying the truth, with a moral character, whose hand is loving and merciful where it will find? The most unfortunate of people who suffer from unhappiness at home among his relatives, and the happier who finds happiness in his home with his wife and sons.



4 - To deal with household affairs and child-rearing, Anas narrated that when a daughter or sister of the companions of the Messenger of Allah married ordered him to be helpful with her husband and respect their rights and educate their children.



5 - That question either to their relatives, and this is a very important right and the fastest way to get your heart, every man loves to be respected and treated well their parents and siblings.



6 - That does not leave his house except with the permission of her husband, even if you leave to visit their parents or relatives.



7 - To be thankful with what he brings food and clothing if they do within their abilities, pray for him and never be bad. It is a right of the husband that his wife does not require over their chances that it would put it in a very uncomfortable situation but must accept a living with that Allah has blessed.  These are the most important rights that women should be respected.  Fear Allah and fulfill your duties, Allah said: "Oh, human! We have created from a man and a woman and ordered that he agrupados en peoples and tribes so that you recognize, knows that the more honest to Allah is the most pious of you. Surely Allah knows better and is well informed of everything. "Let Allah bless us through the Holy Qur`an.












Second Jutba



Praise be to Allah and His infinite thanks for providing affairs. Attest that there is no deity except Allah only, without partners and attested that Muhammad is His servant and messenger who urged achieve His complacency, peace and blessings be upon him, with his family and colleagues. Fear Allah and aferraos firmly to Islam. Brothers! 



Spouses have shared duties to observe:



1-Cooperate to achieve happiness and protected from evil and sadness as much as possible.



2-Cooperate to obey Allah and remind piety.



3-Feeling that there is a shared responsibility in shaping the family and children's education.



4-Do not divulge the secrets of a spouse, not to mention out of place in front of people, whoever it was, even to parents because the problems are solved easily from home while not leaving the house, however if it occurs participation in other outside the home are much more difficult to solve. He conveyed in his Sahih Muslim that the Prophet (r) said: "The worst of persons (both male or female) to Allah Judgement Day will be one that after having had a marital relationship is publishing the secrets of his spouse."



Brothers! If respecting the rights and duties that Islam established to married life can assure you that love will be the driver of the family, cooperation always the way forward and complacency of Allah the goal.



Educating children is a very important role to be played by parents to follow the right path, so that each spouse living with the other as their were a single person, both in understanding and love.



Let me remind everyone that Allah has decreed that in this world happiness and pleasure are limited, there will always be difficulties and disputes, which is possibly why Allah wants us to remember the limitation of thanks in this life and the perfection of the same in the Other.



We pray to Allah to provide spouses respect the rights of others to lead a life of matrimonial secure, peaceful and happy.